Is he just playing games?

Esteban Faggett: To be completely honest it seems like he wants you all to himself but doesn't want anyone else to know. Meaning he might be seeing someone else or may like some one else. Or he may in fact saddely just be using you and that is why he does not want anyone to know. On the other hand he may just be a very private person and really just want to keep his "business to himself", and maybe he likes what you to have without having the pressure of the outside world judging you both. And with his Sergent it may have been an inappropriate time to say girlfriend. And boys in the military do a lot of harrasing about each others ladys. And he may not want that in his life. He just wants you all to himself, and to enjoy all the time you have together without any pressure. Just talk to him and see how he feels!...Show more

Neely Youngblut: he is not into you. sorry. do NOT listen to anyone who says to give him time.. a guy who wont admit he is your! boyfriend or wont allow anyone else to know he is your boyfriend is NOT your boyfriend. maybe he told you he would date only you to get sex from you, maybe other reasons i dont know. but i am telling you... get away from this guy. woman on here will give you false hope.. trust me.. drop the loser

Natalya Sydney: being kinda private with PDAs is tough in the web world. if he uses that professionally, it's not appropriate for him to have those kinda messages all over his facebook. he has the power to delete anything posted to his wall too. just respect that and express your feelings more privately. send it to him in a message instead of posting it on his wall. he's not hiding you, he's just keeping personal things personal. keep your public comments on the lighter more easygoing side and it should be just fine....Show more

Carolin Southers: It has only been a month. Give it some time. This early in the relationship he probably doesn't want people "in his busine! ss," which I'm sure they will be asking him lots of questions ! about you.