relationship question?

Loise Mausser: exactly what I was thinking, he was good with previous but has no clue on what it takes for new relationship, I don't want to push him either but I still want him to know I love him. If I text message him each day is that okay?

Marco Stolarz: I guess I will never know if the relationship was good and if he was a wanderer.

Rona Ising: I also think that he might use the deceased wife as a back up or excuse to other issues, too bad.

Robin Marchione: Yes, most definitely. But, if he's emotionally ready for another woman is a whole nother question. He's use to how things were with this woman not a new one. If he can view the new relationship with maturity or if he gauges all new relationships with the same expectations as the last. Also, a dead wife is a powerful "arms distance" kind of excuse. Walk softly and allow him to do all the "work" in contacting and connecting. Don't chase him or push him. Allow him to tell you where he is. Best! of luck...Show more

Julee Lanham: I'd say he must have been doing something right to last 30 years.

Caterina Yeargan: you can't judge one relationship from a previous one.each relationship is different.... because the parties involved are different.he was a good authority on his past relationship.... but that doesn't guarantee he has authority on this one....Show more

Norine Lomonte: Only if it had been a good relationship.

Georgia Dees: .as he is a bit older ..you could just talk to him.. instead of a texting

Jess Grizzel: Yes. Because it means that he is a man of 1 woman only and and hes relationships are long. He might still have feelings or still hurt for the deceased women if it was too recent and he might need some time. If it was long ago then hes ready for new love.

Vita Moodie: It is what it is. 30 years together should warrant some level of authority. It would be good enough for me until proven otherwise.